Ep. 110 - Conversations I’m Not Having Anymore (And Why That Changes Everything)
Episode Summary:
Midlife isn’t the beginning of the end — but the stories we tell ourselves can make it feel that way.
In this solo episode, Nikki lays out the exact conversations she’s no longer willing to have — with friends, clients, or anyone else — because they drain energy, reinforce stuck identities, and keep women outsourcing their power. This isn’t about toxic positivity or pretending life is easy. It’s about refusing to stay married to excuses that quietly sabotage your health, your confidence, and your future.
From weight loss and menopause narratives to boundaries, belief systems, and personal agency, this episode is a bold reminder that your body, your energy, and your life respond to the stories you choose to keep telling — or let go of.
If you’ve ever felt stuck, tired of explaining yourself, or frustrated by conversations that go nowhere, this one will hit home hard — in the best way.
What You’ll Learn:
Why arguing with people who are committed to staying stuck is a losing game
The difference between feeling discouraged and protecting an identity built on excuses
How over-explaining, fixing, and convincing drains your energy (especially for women)
Why “my best years are behind me” is one of the most dangerous midlife lies
How aging actually gives women more leverage, not less
The hidden cost of believing everything is “outside your control”
Why taking ownership doesn’t mean life gets easier — it means you get stronger
How guarding your conversational energy changes your results, not just your mood
Next Steps:
👉 Ready to stop arguing with your body and start working with it?
The Fat Loss Code for Midlife Women breaks down the exact framework Nikki uses to help women lose fat without restriction, burnout, or white-knuckling their way through life.
This isn’t motivation.
It’s strategy.
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