Ep. 39 When Life Throws You a Shit Sandwich: Control, Chaos, and the Growth in Between

Episode Summary:

This week, Nikki ditches the polish and comes to you raw—straight from her thoughts on control, chaos, and the real root of anxiety. In a world where we’ve never had more comfort, why does life still feel so hard sometimes? From parent guilt to perfectionism to the subtle ways we try to outsmart pain, this is a brutally honest reminder that suffering isn’t a glitch in the system—it’s part of the deal. But if you learn to loosen your grip and shift your perspective, you just might find more peace in the mess. This one’s for every woman who’s exhausted from trying to “do it all right” and just wants to breathe again.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why trying to control all outcomes is making life harder than it needs to be

• How our fear of discomfort is driving more suffering than the hard stuff itself

• The danger of attaching meaning and blame to every negative situation

• Why modern life has made us worse at handling life’s inevitable messes

• Picking your hard: how to trade short-term ease for long-term growth

• Why pain and progress are always a package deal—and that’s not a bad thing

• A permission slip to let go, trust God, and stop trying to be everyone’s savior

Next Steps:

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