FIERCE AFTER 40
The Inner Circle
What if you woke up tomorrow morning and the first thought in your head was,
“How is this my real life? How the frick did I get so lucky?'“
That's not a fantasy. That's what's actually possible for you.
How do I know?
Because I’ve done it.
Fierce After 40 is where we build a strong, sexy body and a life you're obsessed with.
Let’s be honest about where you actually are right now.
You’ve built a good life. Maybe a great one.
You’ve accomplished things.
You’re successful in many areas of life.
You’re a good mom, a good wife, you’re good at your work.
On paper, everything looks fine.
But somewhere in the middle of doing it all, you stopped making space for yourself.
You’re managing everyone else’s needs — their schedules, their growth, their happiness.
And somehow, taking care of yourself feels selfish.
Or at least, it’s something you do after everyone else is taken care of.
The problem is, everyone else is always taken care of.
But your turn never seems to get there.
It’s like you’re trapped between competing values.
I need to be there for my kids
vs.
I haven’t worked out in three months.
I want to ask for help
vs.
I feel like I should be able to handle this myself.
I know what I need to do
vs.
I just can’t seem to actually do it for myself.
You want to recognize the woman you see in the mirror again.
And wake up every day excited instead of counting down until the weekend.
And you know it’s possible, but you can’t seem to get momentum moving in the right direction.
Most women hit forty and just…settle in.
They accept the BS narratives. The Fierce After 40 woman refuses to.
Average:
Weight gain is an inevitable part of aging and menopause.
The Fierce Woman:
Screw that, I’m getting in the best shape of my life. I’m going full smoke show before my next birthday.
Average:
Feeling like your husband is your roommate is standard when life gets busy.
The Fierce Woman:
Hard no. I’m building a marriage where we make out like 17-year-olds who just snuck out of the house and can’t keep our hands off each other.
Average:
Hit snooze 5 times, dreading going to work, and counting down every day until the weekend.
The Fierce Woman:
Hell no. Wishing away 5 out of 7 days a week is unacceptable. We’re building lives we’re in love with living - even on a Monday.
Average:
Aches, hot flashes, brain fog — that’s just what getting older looks like. Welcome to midlife.
The Fierce Woman:
Nope. I’m going to feel strong, energized, and clear-headed. My best years are not behind me.
Average:
You’re too busy to prioritize yourself. Maybe when the kids are older.
The Fierce Woman:
If not now, when? I’m done waiting for permission to put myself on my own calendar.
Life isn't perfect for the Fierce Woman either.
Shit still happens. People still disappoint her. She has the occasional binge fest.
But she's so solid in who she is that none of it takes her out.
And because she's living life on her terms, life feels exciting and purposeful…
instead of like a trap.
I’m fully convinced our years after 40 are the best times of our lives.
If we position them to be.
1 - We’re more sure of who we are.
Less people-pleasing. Less good-girl complex. Less shrinking ourselves in our own lives.
It’s so much easier to step into a bold level of confidence and self-reliance the older we get.
The fierce woman knows what she wants, and she’s not ashamed or afraid to ask for it.
2 - We have lived experience to help curate this next season of life.
What know what we like and what we don’t.
We know what works for us, and what doesn’t.
We know what experiences we’d like to repeat, and what to avoid.
We have the self-awareness to know what we’re really good at - and what we need support with.
The fierce woman uses her past wins and failures to help design the exact life she wants to live.
3 - We have more resources.
We’re not broke college students living on Ramen noodles.
We can allocate funds and resources to shift areas of our life that we’d like to improve. We can invest in experiences we’d like to have. We can actually live life on our terms.
Because if not now, when?
4 - Confidence is way easier to embrace now.
We’ve learned that nobody else is perfect.
We’ve learned that comparison serves no purpose.
We know we’re amazing already.
Now, we’re going to build the body and life you really want…
and the confidence to match it.
I’m talking confidence like catching a glimpse in the mirror and thinking,
“OMG, I am a snack. My husband should be begging to do the dishes and then rub my back and make out with me because he’s such a lucky guy.”
Who is Fierce After 40 for?
It doesn’t matter where you’re starting. It matters where you’re going.
» You don’t just want to lose weight.
You want to build muscle, lose fat, and mitigate disease as much as possible.
You don’t want to “look good for your age.”
You want to look like a smoke show for any age.
And have a body so fit you can do anything you want today - and at 90.
» You don’t just want a good relationship.
You want to be fully supported and seen by your partner.
To have wonderful communication, fair fighting, and fantastic sex.
Not fantastic sex for your age. Fantastic sex for any age.
(Even if we need a lube and hormones to get there, lol. It’s fine)
» You don’t just want a stable career with golden handcuffs.
You want to feel like you’re actually making a difference.
To know your time is valued.
To do work that challenges you and feels impactful.
Even on the days you’d rather be on the beach.
» You’re done being the woman who does everything for everyone and has nothing left for herself.
You want to feel supported, not resentful.
You want to ask for what you need — and actually get it.
» You’re not looking for a cheerleader who tells you you’re doing great when you’re not.
You want someone who will lovingly call you out on your own BS, hand you the clarity you’ve been craving, and help you actually move.
And while you know you’re capable of having what you want…
you’re not quite sure how to get there.
You know you need mentorship from women who are walking the walk.
That’s exactly why I’m opening the Fierce After 40 Inner Circle.
I live a life I’m obsessed with.
Because I built it.
It didn't happen by accident.
It took 15 years of failures, hard conversations, mindset work, and being willing to look ridiculous while I figured it out.
My name is Nikki.
I’m a 44-year-old wife and mom who retired from nursing after building a successful online health coaching business.
Every single day when my eyes pop open (on their own, with no alarm clock)…
I say to God, “Thank you for this amazing life. How did I get so lucky? Why are you so good to me? I don’t even deserve this.”
And I feel that, with every fiber of my being. But it was NOT always that way.
I have a rock-solid marriage to a man I'm completely in love with, and love more every day.
Barf, I know. But when we were younger, it was so bad there were times I swear I would have divorced him — but we were too broke to separate.
We stayed. We worked on it. And now I have the best marriage I’ve ever seen up close. We’re obsessed with each other.
I still work too much.
But now I work too much because I'm doing my soul's work every day in a business that took me years to build. On my terms.
But there was a time I was stuck in a hospital where I couldn't get a vacation approved, even with 10 years seniority.
I have deep, meaningful friendships and lots of fun.
Golf, poker, you name it.
But there was a time I had zero life because I didn't have the time or capacity for it.
You can invigorate or completely recreate any area of your life that matters to YOU.
But here's what I learned: everything worth having takes work and strategy.
You don't just fall into it.
Your marriage, your health, your career, your confidence
— none of it just happens.
The difference between women who build lives they love, and women who keep waiting is this:
1 - They decide what they want
2 - They do the uncomfortable work to get there
3 - They don't give up when it gets hard.
I’ve done that work across every area of my life.
And I am really damn good at helping other women do it too…
while shortcutting years of wasted time down the personal development rabbit hole.
I’ve walked the walk.
Whatever it is you want to work on — your body, your marriage, your career, your mindset, your boundaries…
I already know the process of making the change.
I’m great at the strategy. I’m even better at the mindset.
And I will get to the heart of what’s actually holding you back faster than anyone else you’ve ever worked with.
Here’s what working with me actually looks like.
Fierce After 40 is not a program with modules and homework and videos that roll out every week. There’s no curriculum. No prescribed path. No one-size-fits-all anything.
It’s designed like this on purpose.
This is a high-touch, direct-access coaching space where we do the work that actually matters…
based on what YOU came here for.
A Custom Coaching Roadmap Built Around YOU
We’ll do a deep-dive onboarding call together where we map out exactly what you want to work on, what fierce looks like for YOU specifically, and how we’ll measure progress. Your weekly check-ins are customized to YOUR goals. This is not a cookie-cutter experience. It’s yours.
Monthly 1:1 Coaching Call
Every month, you and I get on a private call together. Just us.
This is where we go deep on whatever is most present for you — the personal stuff, the private stuff, the things you’re not ready to bring to the group yet.
We’ll review your progress, adjust your direction, and make sure we’re always working on what matters most.
The Inner Circle Group (3x per week)
You have access to our small group space.
This is not a Facebook group with 500 strangers.
This is a tight-knit group of women who are all doing this work together.
Cheering each other on, holding each other accountable, and coaching each other in real time.
I’m in there Tues-Thur, coaching into the themes I see coming up. Because there are always common themes.
Direct Messenger Access to Me
Monday through Thursday, you have direct access to me via Telegram Messenger. One-on-one. When you’re spiraling mid-week, when you need a gut check, when you just need someone to tell you to stop overthinking it and go, I’m there.
This is what keeps you from falling back into old patterns between calls.
What we actually work on together.
Every woman’s journey looks different. But here are the themes that keep showing up — and that we go deep on inside the Inner Circle:
Your Body — For Real This Time
Getting strong. Losing fat. Feeling energized. Understanding what’s actually happening in your body during perimenopause and menopause so you stop fighting it and start working with it. Building the kind of physical foundation that makes everything else in your life better — because your brain is part of your body, and when you feel good physically, everything sharpens.
Saying What You Actually Mean
Direct, honest communication as a life skill. No sugarcoating. No hints. No expecting people to read your mind. That’s not being nice — that’s bullshitting the people you love. We work on learning to ask for what you need, communicate clearly with your partner, and stop apologizing for taking up space.
Doing Hard Things On Purpose
Growth lives in discomfort. In this space, you will be encouraged to seek out challenges — physical, emotional, social — and build the evidence that you can handle hard things. Failure is part of the process, not the opposite of success. We celebrate the steps, not just the destination.
Getting Clear On What You Actually Want
A lot of women I work with are so busy taking care of everyone else that they’ve completely lost touch with what THEY actually want. We work on that. We map out your life, identify where you’ve been on autopilot, and design what the next chapter actually looks like — on your terms.
Building a Mindset That Doesn’t Quit
Self-trust. Resilience. The ability to stay grounded when life goes sideways — because it will. The fierce woman doesn’t fall apart when things get hard. She expects it, handles it, and keeps going. We work on building that muscle.
A word about what coaching with me is actually like.
I have a friend who used to call me whenever she was stuck.
She called it getting “Nikki’d.”
She’d explain it like this:
“You give me clarity on what’s actually happening. You help me see where I’m just spinning emotionally versus where I actually need to focus. And then I can make a decision and move — instead of staying stuck in my head about it for another three weeks.”
I’ve been told I get away with saying things nobody else can. That I’m blunt enough to actually be useful, but I say it in a way that makes people laugh instead of getting defensive.
I don’t need to be an expert in YOUR world to help you. I ask the right questions. I see the patterns. And I will name what’s actually going on faster than you’d believe.
Fair warning: I am not here to tell you you’re doing great when you’re not. I’m not a cheerleader. I’m not going to coddle you or give you a participation trophy for showing up. I am going to love you fiercely, call you out with kindness, and help you actually move.
If that’s what you’ve been craving — this is your space.
This is an application-only program.
The Inner Circle is small on purpose.
I’m not running a massive group coaching program with hundreds of women.
This is a small space where we’re getting very intentional and strategic.
Which means I’m selective about who I bring in.
I want women who are ready to do the work. Who are done waiting for their turn. Who can handle being called out with love and are willing to get uncomfortable in the name of building something real.
If that’s you, here’s what happens next:
✓ Fill out the application (link below). Tell me where you are, what you want, and what’s been getting in the way.
✓ After completing the application, you’ll be guided to my calendar to schedule a call. We’ll talk through what working together looks like and make sure this is the right move for you.
✓ If it’s a “hell yes” for both of us, we’ll get started.